Making sure your child is properly buckled in their car seat
is just as important as buying a good car seat. You could have the world’s best
car seat but if your child isn’t buckled properly then it’s just not going to
help them stay safe.
Once upon a time I was just like everyone else; I figured
that as long as I snapped together that 5-point harness then my baby was safe
and secure. It seems logical to think that buckling a car seat should be just
as simple as buckling an adult seat belt; snap in and go. However, there’s more
to it with car seats. Car seats are particular about how they are buckled.
Here are some things you need to keep in mind when buckling
that car seat:
Chest Clip - The Chest Clip needs to be at arm pit level. You will need to make sure it is at the correct level every single time you buckle your child in, as the clip tends to move around
Buckle Location – Did you know that depending on if your child is rear facing or forward facing, the buckles need to be in certain slots? Buckles work differently depending on the way that the seat is facing. If you thread those buckles the wrong way then they will not help in an accident.
Rear Facing Buckles – Shoulder buckles need to be at or BELOW the shoulders
Forward Facing Buckles – Shoulder buckles need to be at or ABOVE the shoulders.
Car Seat Installation – It’s easy to install a car seat
improperly. In fact 3 out of 4 car seats are installed improperly! Make sure to
read your manual thoroughly when installing a car seat and follow all the
directions exactly! This means threading the seat belt/LATCH in the properly
slot (there is one for rear facing and one for forward facing.) Make sure you
only use the LATCH system when it should be used and where it should be used
(this is different for every vehicle and varies depending on seat location and
even the weight of your child). Use that top tether! If your child is forward
facing then you must use that top tether. If your child is rear facing then use
the top tether only if your car seat manual says to (not all car seats are
designed for rear facing top tethers yet). One of the most important clues to
knowing if your car seat is installed properly is the wiggle test. If you can
move the car seat around more than an inch side to side, then it is not tight enough.
Generally when installing a car seat, you will need to actually press your
knees into the seat so that it presses deep enough into your car in order to
get a tight enough fit. It will be hard work but it’s worth it! Alternatively,
you can take your car seat (with your car) to a Child Passenger SafetyTechnician and have them check it out or install it for you; usually this is a
free service.
Aftermarket Products – It might seem that if a product is on
the shelves then it must be safe to use. Unfortunately this is not true. When
it comes to car seats, you should not use ANY aftermarket products. This
includes head cushions, buckle covers, car seat covers like the Bundle Me, and
even those cute slipcovers that you can buy so that you can update the look of
your car seat. It may not seem like it but aftermarket products can hinder the
car seat’s ability to keep your child safe in an accident. Not to mention that it will void any warranties with the car seat manufacturer. If the product did
not come with the car seat or can be purchased through the same car seat
manufacturer for that specific seat then do not use it!
Buckle Tightness – This is a big one. Those buckles need to be tight! Buckles need to lie in a straight line without any slack. There is a simple test that you can do to see if you have those buckles tight enough; it’s called the pinch test. Buckle your child in their seat and then using your pointer finger and thumb try to pinch the strap near your child’s collarbone. If you can pinch the strap then that buckle is not tight enough. If the buckle is tight enough, you should not be able to pinch the strap.
Jackets – Sure it might be below freezing and you just want
to keep your baby all bundled and warm but that jacket must come off before you
buckle them in! Why? Because when you add a bulky layer like a jacket to the
car seat mix, it makes the buckles too loose. They may seem like they are snug
but in an accident the jacket will compress and suddenly those buckles that
seemed so tight are now inches too loose! Don’t believe me? Try it! Buckle your
child with a jacket on and get those buckles as snug as you normally would. Now
without loosening those straps, un-clip those buckles, remove the jacket,
re-buckle and now see how snug those buckles fit! Tons of slack! The safe
alternative is to either have a car blanket that the kids can use or buckle
your child into their car seat without the jacket and then place the jacket on
backwards on top of the buckle.
The Correct Seat – Make sure you are using the right type of
car seat for your child’s age, weight, and maturity level! In general, kids
should be rear facing until they reach their car seats weight/height limit and
are at least 1 years old although the recommendation is now 2 years old. Kids
should forward face until they meet the car seats weight/height limit or are at
least 4 years and 40 lbs. That is the bare minimum however as most kids are not
mature enough for a booster seat until they are much older! Which brings me to
boosters, kids need to be in a booster until they are between the ages of 8-12
years, are at least 4’9’’ and weight between 80-100 lbs. These are just the
basic car seat rules; we’ll cover the details more thoroughly in a follow post
in this series.
This post is a part of a month long series. If you would like to check out the other posts in the series, please check them out on the Crash Course: Child Passenger Safety series schedule.


This was really helpful! I was always confused about the above or below the shoulders rule. I do want to ask you a question about boosters. We just moved Landyn into one because he's outgrown his carseat but the booster just doesn't feel as safe to me. He has a hard time keeping the seatbelt where it should be on his shoulder (i.e. he is always sticking it under his arm) and he's always leaning over to mess with Lexi or something. Just wondering if you have any suggestions. -Elaine
ReplyDeleteHi Elaine,
DeleteYeah, Landyn is much too young for a booster seat. Kids should be in a 5 point harness (car seat) till at least 4 yrs and 40 lbs (although I am aware that some manufacturers have boosters for 3 yr olds...not sure why they thing that's ok). Kids need to be able to sit properly in a booster seat (no slumping, no moving the seat belt, etc) if they are going to use one. I would stick him in a car seat with a higher weight limit. We had to do the same thing with the boys, their car seat only went to 40 lbs and so it was a booster or upgrade to a better car seat. That's why we went with the Diono's as they are 5 point harnesses till 80 lbs (aka the booster seat weight limit) and even after that they can be booster seats till 120 lbs. They are pricey though and that is a hard thing to swallow but they do last forever. There are cheaper car seats on the market with a higher weight limit though I am sure.
The point is that since Landyn can't actually sit in his booster properly and he's still under 4, he probably would go flying out of it in a crash (honestly even if my boys were heavy enough...they are just now hitting 40 lbs, I wouldn't trust them in a booster...just not safe enough) I would move him back into a car seat.
Thanks! Your pictures are really helpful (btw your daughter is super cute!). I'm really big on car seat safety, I'm still rear-facing my almost 3 year old. Last Christmas I convinced the grandparents to buy expensive Diono car seats for the kids instead of toys! Best idea I ever had :D
ReplyDeleteI think this article is fantastic. It is so important that children be buckled properly and the more education the better. Your daughter is so adorable btw!
ReplyDeleteThis article is so helpful. Great information!
ReplyDeleteso extremely important! i see some crazy carseat set up when doing preschool drop off! some 2-5 year olds not even in their boosters, just sitting on them!
ReplyDeleteThank you for this article! I will definitely be passing it on to all of my mommy friends :-)
ReplyDeleteGreat information, there are so many conflicting ideas out there for parents, its great to read that you're encouraging us all to do the safest thing for our kids! thanks!
ReplyDeleteThis article provides a lot of great information! Thanks! I'm still rear-facing my 20 month old when everyone else seems to think he should be forward facing by now. The one point I have trouble with is removing jackets. We live in Canada and in the winter the temperature is often -4 F or below. For months. It just isn't right to take a child's jacket off in those temps. I realize you said to put it on backwards or use blankets, but with those temps, I don't think I could do that to them. I realize it is for saftey, but it's also not good for them to be freezing!
ReplyDeleteIs the Diono Radian the same as Sunshine Kids Radian? I have heard of the latter but never of the Diono before. I was wondering what kind of car seat you used, we are just ready to upsize from an infant seat (24 lbs, 30.5" at 10 months), I was thinking of the Britax Marathon but was intersted in other suggestions. Thanks!
ReplyDeleteYes Sunshine Kids changed their name to Diono late '11. :) They updated their Radians just a tad but they are the same great seats that they have always been.
DeleteThanks for this!
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